So, what do you do when people have disappointed you? When people have made choices that negatively affect your world and what you are trying to accomplish?
I remember the people who haven’t – those people who “get it” and seem to do it the right way more than the wrong way. Those are the people that keep me going. I never want the disappointments to outweigh the greatness that is in a lot of the people in my life. And there are some really amazing people…you know who you are. I love you all more than you know…
Abs
Abs of Steel 
Thanks for being one of those amazing people in my life.
I think you just answered your own question. Not dwelling on the disappointment and counting your blessings seems like wisdom to me. I love ya!
FIDO….
Forget It and Drive On!
If it’s a team member (especially one that I supervise) – then I would discuss tone and how each decision this person makes sets and leaves a tone that affects the team in a positive or negative way. Encourage that person to set a great tone with their decisions and attitude.
if it’s family or a “friend”, well then cuss at them.